One question I am frequently asked is how our 'bigger kids' feel about us adopting.
I can honestly tell you that they absolutely adore their little brothers and sisters and LOVE spending time with them.
The only concern I can remember any of them ever having was when our oldest son, Travis, (who is in college but home for the summer right now) questioned how it would be to have a sibling 19 years younger than him. He was afraid that he really wouldn't have the chance to get to know Havyn like he does his other siblings.
I loved that he cared enough and wanted to be able to be a part of her life. As he and I talked, I agreed-their relationship will probably not be the 'normal' sibling relationship- but that it can be special in it's own way. I have found in my life that doing things a little bit differently than everyone else isn't such a bad thing anyway. ;0)
So, while they may not be like 'typical' siblings and fight over toys~ they have found their own way to bond...
and it's beautiful.